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How to choose a car seat?

How to choose a car seat?

Why car seat important during the travel?

Car seat are used in the car during the travel time. It makes the baby comfortable baby journey, because we can’t carry the baby in hand throughout the travel and the normal seat will be big for the kid. So, they may fall easily from the seat. It is always better choice to choose the car seats, which will be small and comfortable to sit. It has seat belt too, so the baby can wear the seat belt. If the car may experience any sudden jerks, baby won’t fall from the car seat because of the seat belt. The car seat needs to be tied with the normal car seat. We can’t keep the car seat separately in the car, it needs to kept on car seat only. The baby car seat can be kept on all seats of the car. It is safest way to carry the babies while travelling. Safety should be first priority in travelling, which can be experienced in the baby car seats.

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Choosing of car seat:

The car seat should be choose based on the baby needs and type of the car. Because each car will be different and we can’t buy anything as our wish. Some car seat will be large and some can be small. So, need to choose according to that. Then the car seat needs to be used for multipurpose, it can be also used as the baby carrier too. If it is not used in car, we can use some car seats as baby carrier it comes along with the handle. So, the parents can carry it whenever they went out. It has two purposes and money will be saved here. The baby seat should have maximum capacity to hold. All the babies can’t be the same, some will be chubby and some may be lean. So, it should hold maximum capacity and we can’t change the car seat each and every time according to the baby growth. There should be some adjustments need to be found in the car seats. So, we can adjust it whenever we need. 

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The belt in the car needs to be extendable and good quality of elastic need to be used. The elasticity need not to be loss its capacity at its extent. Because we will use the car seat over the whole year, if the belt lost its nature there will be no use of using the car seat. Baby or kid may easily fall down from the seat. Then the car seat should be easily washable and after the wash also it should not lose its nature. The cloth needs to be kid friendly and it is stuffed with sponge material. So, the kid will feel comfortable while sitting, they won’t get the back pain too. In speed breakers also they won’t get any jerk movements or hitting. Some twin car seats also available in the market for the twin babies. The car seat will contain some music systems, it will automatically pamper the baby if they start to cry. So, there are many different models of car seats are found in the market, according to our need we can choose it.

How to teach privacy to children

Young and not so young children often do not know how to differentiate the importance of privacy in people’s lives and do not understand where the limit may be. Privacy for children is just a vague word, and they can feel confusing at times. How can you explain to children the need that other people need intimate moments without being disturbed by anyone?

In addition to people’s privacy at appropriate times, it is also necessary for them to understand respect and consent – what allows it to be touched and where -, permission – give and receive -, etc. Children must understand the importance of respect for oneself, for the body and for others. It is very important that children understand that their body belongs to them and that everyone – even mom and dad – needs permission to touch their body. It doesn’t matter if you look like a broken record, they need to not forget them.

Talk to your kids early about this topic.

As soon as the children can understand the words, you will have to tell them about the things we do alone – going to the bathroom or touching private parts – in front of others – hugging or kissing with consent – and why we should knock on the door before entering a bedroom or bathroom if it is occupied.

Make him understand that it is common sense and has nothing to do with fears.

In this world, there are people with fear because it is evil in society. Although parents do have a certain fear for their safety when they are not with us, it is important to keep them safe at all times. For this reason, it is necessary for them to understand that privacy is common sense and that if someone crosses the line or the limit, and they do not feel comfortable, they should immediately distrust.

Have regular conversations about respect

Each family may have different privacy rules about where to touch or about privacy in the bathroom, for example. Your children must know that just as they are the ones who must ask to touch others, people must also ask them.

Apply the swimsuit rule

It is essential to explain to the children that no one – not older children, not children of their age, not older people, not babysitters, not teachers, not family members, not anyone in the world – should touch any part of the body that covers their costume bathroom and if someone tries it, you should make it clear that you should not do it. Children should know that if this happens or if someone tries to touch them, then they should always tell mom or dad.

Do not allow taboo subjects at home.

It is important that there are no taboo subjects at home, and for this, it is necessary that there are subjects that can be discussed at home naturally. Children must be taught the appropriate terminology from a young age so that they have enough words in their vocabulary to be able to describe something that happens at a specific moment.

Let your children explore

There are children who like to touch themselves to explore their body, and there is nothing wrong as long as it is in private – like at home in the bathroom – and in a healthy way and without worrying behaviours.

Should you allow your baby to sleep with you in co-sleeping?

When it comes to parenting it can be difficult to determine what is best and what is not for young children. Especially in the areas that even the experts cannot agree on. Co-sleeping with your baby, toddler or older child is a controversial issue for many, and not everyone agrees on this issue.

Co-sleeping refers to sharing a bed with your child or sharing a room with him. There are mainly two things that you should consider as a parent before considering whether or not to co-sleep with your children: the psychological impact on your child and the impact on your relationship (if any).

Remember that if you allow your child to sleep in your bed or if you share the bedroom, it will affect your intimate time as a couple and your sexual life if you live with your partner. This is not something that should be minimized because a healthy sex life is vital to a good relationship. In addition, of course, to your happiness and well-being. For this reason, it is important to consider if you really want to sleep with your baby in the long term or not.

Psychological consequences

Those who favor co-sleeping claim that it provides children with a strong sense of security and comfort around their parents. A healthy attachment between parents and children is also promoted. Additional feeding and closeness in co-sleeping is believed to provide the infant and child with a solid foundation for healthy psychological development. Plus, it helps prevent a toddler’s separation anxiety that you may experience at night.

But there are experts who comment that with smaller babies there can be big safety problems that must be taken into account when it comes to co-sleeping. In this sense, there are great opponents of co-sleeping and they explain that it can interfere with the child’s ability to learn to calm down or develop a healthy sense of autonomy and independence . Some also argue that it can even lead to immature behavior on the part of the child. They claim that it could increase the likelihood of fuzzy boundaries, boundaries that children need to learn and respect and also understand, that parents need time alone.

There are also experts who say that co-sleeping could even lead to resentment between parents, especially if one parent is not entirely in favor of the practice but feels compelled to do so. This can increase dissatisfaction with life as a couple.

Practical considerations

As many parents know, there are some benefits to sleeping with a baby or young child: it is easier to attend to them if they need it and it can improve the quality of parents’ sleep (something essential also to be able to have a better mood). Co-sleeping babies and children tend to cry less often at night, so both the child and the parents can have a good night’s sleep.

On the other hand, with smaller babies there can be safety problems. Babies can roll out of bed, which can cause injury. They can also be at risk of suffocation if parents move a lot in their sleep or if their little ones get caught between the sheets. They are even in danger of descending between the mattress and the head of the bed or the wall. The ideal thing for a newborn is to sleep in a crib close to the bed, but not in the bed.